Archive for the ‘Blame’ Category

Are You a Victimized Parent? Stop Blaming and Start Loving

Wednesday, September 16th, 2009

photo by Mateusz Stachowski

Free Relationship Advice, from Relationship-Oneness.com

In your relationship with your children, do you play the “Victim Parent”? I ask this question because all throughout the week, I come across individuals who constantly complain that there children have it out for them or how they’re treated poorly.

While observing the “Victim Parents”, I noticed the communication that goes on between parent vs child and came up with some conclusions. First, I believe often times the way we speak and treat our children is exactly how our children will treat us in return. If we’re yelling and screaming as a way to communicate with kids, more than likely we’ll get the same sort of treatment from them.Our children may not yell and scream back at us, but it will manifest in other ways, such as; being defiant, full of resentment, having little or no trust for you, violence, etc. I’ve noticed that with the “Victim Parents”, they talk down about their children to others and use mocking language to show they’re boss.

Being Offended; Letting Go of Pointless Ideals

Friday, July 3rd, 2009


Free Relationship Advice, from Relationship-Oneness.com
Imagine for a moment, you’re walking down the street and someone 10 yards away starts singing row row row your boat, and within you stirs the greatest sense of being offended you have ever felt.

Seriously… Think about that. Stop Reading; put yourself in that place. No one is timing you to see how fast it take to get through this article.

See if you can bring about that feeling of being offended in this situation. Yes… I know it’s silly, but the point is, can you possibly find a reason to be offended by someone signing, “rowww rowwww row, your booooooaaaat, gennntlllly dowwnn the streeeeammm…..

Presidential Blame; Seriously… Get Over It

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009


Free Relationship Advice, from Relationship-Oneness.com
This article comes after seeing an email which seemed to be more noise in a cluttered and confused world. I’m willing to bet you cannot count on two hands the amount of judgmental, negative, pointless, and irrational emails you have received over the past couple months, if not days. Are we seriously buying into the insanity being passed around the web and through our hearts.

I don’t watch the news (haven’t for a long time). I don’t read news headlines (as of recent). I don’t participate in talk where blame is the desired outcome. I was covering someone’s desk today as they are out on vacation and an email came through that wasn’t any different from any other negative email, it just sparked some enthusiasm to write this post.