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Free Relationship Advice, from Relationship-Oneness.com

In your relationship with your children, do you play the “Victim Parent”? I ask this question because all throughout the week, I come across individuals who constantly complain that there children have it out for them or how they’re treated poorly.

While observing the “Victim Parents”, I noticed the communication that goes on between parent vs child and came up with some conclusions. First, I believe often times the way we speak and treat our children is exactly how our children will treat us in return. If we’re yelling and screaming as a way to communicate with kids, more than likely we’ll get the same sort of treatment from them.Our children may not yell and scream back at us, but it will manifest in other ways, such as; being defiant, full of resentment, having little or no trust for you, violence, etc. I’ve noticed that with the “Victim Parents”, they talk down about their children to others and use mocking language to show they’re boss.  Read more... (estimated 3:16 mins reading time)

Free Relationship Advice, from Relationship-Oneness.com

Do you ever feel your energy being drained when hanging around certain individuals? Is it always about them and their problems? Is there constant negativity? I like to call these energy drainers Emotional Vampires. Yes, that’s what I said…..Vampires!  They will suck the life right out of you without you being aware of it!

The first thing I notice when hanging around someone new, a family member, or longtime friend, are the words they use.  How much of the conversation is directed upon themselves?  Do I feel drained after speaking with them?  Do I feel this relationship is beneficial to my emotional well being?  Ask yourself these questions and see what you come up with.

Most of us have at least one or more Emotional Vampires in our lives without even being conscious of it. It could be a spouse, partner, parent, boss, co-worker, friend, etc. They exist everywhere!  Emotional Vampires get their fix by feeding off of your emotions…..that’s how they survive.  Read more... (estimated 1:57 mins reading time)

Free Relationship Advice, from Relationship-Oneness.com

Do you ever experience such an overwhelming amount of bliss in your relationship that you feel as though your on cloud nine and nothing could ever change that? And then, BOOM….what just happened? One minute you’re totally in-love and the next you can’t understand what happened, and why you don’t feel the way you used to feel for that particular person. Does this sound all to familiar? I know that it does for me.

In my marriage, I have been in moments of bliss and several moments of wondering what happened to that feeling.  The funny thing is, is that I find myself looking for outside reasons for what went wrong. “Oh, I’m just having PMS or just having a bad day.” Whatever reason it may be, it takes place inside yourself. Love is an outward expression of how we feel about ourself.  Read more... (estimated 2:06 mins reading time)