Discover Sincerity in what You Love About Them; How to Encourage… series pt. 3
Free Relationship Advice, from Relationship-Oneness.com
Read the Intro to this 5 Part Series
pt. 1 – Remember Your Capacity to Love
pt. 2 – See Them as Whole
This is part 3, of a Relationship Series called; How to Encourage a Loved One.
- Remember what Sincerity means to you.
- Understand Why, what you Love, is so Sincere.
- Visualize your Sincerity and experience the Feeling.
Why do people desire sincerity? “Because instinctively we know much of our world as fabricated, with not much honesty that reaches the heart and soul… -We understand within the healing we desire, we must first get over the idea that honesty is vulnerable and weak. Sincerity, is what brings people together. Transparency is what keeps us as one.”(excerpt from PAW Daily 0197 Sincere Transparency)
Remember what Sincerity Means to You
What does Sincerity mean to you? I’ve found this to be a great question to reflect on. Sincerity is a great feeling, it’s honest and intimate. When we bring our self to a place of sincerity, we connect with others and ourself more fully. Reflect on how sincerity has played a role in your own life, what experiences have you had where someone else’s genuine sincerity played an important role in your healing or growth. Understand how that connection was deepened through honesty.
Understand Why, what you Love, is so Sincere
Understand ‘Why,’ what you ‘Love’ about them is so sincere. You get to understand yourself a little more by understanding why you love what you love. What is the purpose behind your desire to love another, what does it mean to you? Why is it sincere?
What I love most about encouraging my brother, is that I feel connected to his experience. He’s 15, growing up with the same parents I did, experiencing some of the same challenges as well. When I encourage him, it’s like I’m encouraging the 15 year old version of myself. This is a great opportunity for me to exercise compassion and sincerity as I take what I know now, and encourage someone I love; who I see as somewhat of as smaller version of myself -except he’s white 
Visualize your Sincerity and experience the Feeling
Again, this is truly powerful. When you visualize your sincerity, try and connect with it on a deep level where it hurts to almost not think about it. How does what you love about them offer so much value to you and everyone else? Is what you love a silly expectation of the ego, or is it a true gift they posses and desire for themselves? If it’s a silly expectation, you’ll find it difficult to cultivate sincerity, you’ll find it as more of a strong desire for self rather than a gift that all mankind can benefit from.
Part 4; Encourage their Heart in Silence